As more people take steps to make green choices a normal part of their lifestyle, greening events is the logical next step. And what’s one of the biggest events to plan? A wedding. It’s also an event that is meant to reflect the couple – their love, commitment and shared values. So, if going green is part of your life, it makes sense to plan a wedding that reflects that.
I got married in September of last year and we tried to make our wedding as green as possible. Here’s what we did:
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Before the wedding, there was the engagement. My fiance gave me a pink diamond from Green Karat, a sustainable jeweler. They use recycled and synthetic materials, thereby avoiding environmentally damaging mining practices and the purchase of “blood” or “conflict” diamonds.
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Once we set the date, we had to spread the news! All of our communications – save the date, invites, info packets – were posted on our website and e-mailed to save paper. My hub-to-be designed our website and graphics, but there are a lot of options out there if that’s not your area of expertise, such as eWedding or the Wedding Channel.
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We got married at a yoga retreat center in Guatemala. Throughout the wedding weekend, our guests enjoyed local, fresh vegetarian and vegan meals. (Learn more about how plant-based diets are good for the environment.)
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We’ve purchased carbon offsets for our wedding and honeymoon flights. At Native Energy, we were able to offset our flights for $36 – money which goes towards renewable energy programs. (I chose the option that supported wind energy and “re-mooable energy” – methane.) I also found a wedding offset option on CarbonFund.org that allows you to calculate the impact of guests’ transportation and hotel stays.
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Almost all of our gifts on our registry were from green companies and stores, such as GreenHome.com, Ten Thousand Villages and Global Exchange. We also asked for stuff that wasn’t “stuff”, such as tickets to the opera and our local theatre – these were some of our favorite gifts. Date nights for a year!
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Our honeymoon was wonderful! We stayed at the beautiful eco-resort El Remanso in the Osa Peninsula of Costa Rica, in the midst of one of the world’s most diverse rainforests. The area is very well preserved, and we spotted toucans, scarlet macaws and howler monkeys. El Remanso keeps it green by running on hydro-electric power from the nearby waterfalls and rivers, limiting construction to areas already naturally cleared (no logging), and, of course, recycling and composting. They’ve also partnered with neighboring resorts to preserve the land and create a biological corridor for local and migrating species.
There were definitely some challenging areas where we were not as green as I would have liked. Certainly the travel to and from Central America (for both us and our guests) has a high impact, regardless of the carbon offsets.
And, before the wedding planning started, I had this idea that I’d design some kind of custom gown made out of organic hemp silk or some other sustainable material. Then I realized that I didn’t really have the time, creativity or budget to get a custom designed dress. There are certainly eco-gowns out there (Conscious Clothing, Olivia Lucas, Natural Bridal Collection), but none of them were really my style. I wound up finding a local boutique outlet in San Francisco that sells designer samples and excess inventory for about half the price. Green-ish
All in all though, I think we did a pretty good job, keeping within the limits of our timeframe, resources and budget. And, of course, the most important thing – everyone had a blast!
If you’re planning a wedding or big event, and want to keep it green, check out these resources. You may not be able to go 100% green on your big day, but every step makes a difference.
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My Eco-chic Wedding – with a downloadable wedding planner and editor’s picks
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EcoWedding.org – includes a planning guide and vendor directory
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Treehugger’s article “How to Green Your Wedding”
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Eco-chic Weddings, by Emily Elizabeth Anderson

5. Food. Of course, you’ll want to fill all your guests’ bellies with fresh, organic foods (with loads of vegetarian dishes). For casual get togethers, suggest a potluck. It’s fun to mingle recipes, and it’s more likely that reusable dishes, pots and pans will be used. You could even make the green angle part of the theme, asking everyone to bring their favorite cups and plates.